We All Fall Down...

Ish happens, Love.

It's life and as cheesy as it sounds--every single thing that has happened in this life has happened FOR you...not TO you.

You are right where you need to be RIGHT now. Right in this moment. You might be thinking..."Really? Right now? I am at an ultimate low. Rock bottom. I'm waiting for my breakthrough and I can't seem to find it."

You're reading this for a reason and I hope I can help you understand your current situation a little better. I've been where you are. But, what I've learned in the past couple years is you can't run from it. Don't "fake it 'til you make it" no matter how many times you've been told that is the way to really get what you're looking for. Because, take it from me, it just magnifies your current issue times infinity if you're ignoring the issue at hand and acting as though everything is peachy.

Identify the problem, and then make subtle changes each day to correct it. Meditate. Research. Develop new healthy habits. Decide you are going to commit to a becoming a better YOU and the rest will fall into place.

Most of our ish situations we find ourselves in are a direct result of lack of self love; #truthbomb. Somewhere along the way...we lost respect, unconditional love, and patience for ourselves. High societal standards? That dang comparison trap? Childhood trauma? Emotionally abusive relationships (romantic or NOT)? Bullying?

Be easy on yourself, beautiful. Come back to yourself.

Here's how:

Rise Up: Be nice to YOURSELF and when you truly do that, it is impossible to be anything but nice to others. When we rise through unconditional self love we shine so brightly that others find their way.

Show Up: Let every wild and untamed ounce of you be seen. It doesn't matter what anyone else thinks; we are all helping one another anyway. This is your life and you have unlimited potential. You are in complete control of your life; your future. Frightening or empowering? YOU decide.

Lift Up: Know that every person you see has been bound by the same words that have chained you and he/she needs to see you stepping into yourself authentically.

Mess Up: Forget being good. Forget being nice. Forget being perfect. Mess this thing up as much as possible. All things beautiful form from what appears to be absolute chaos--including you. When you mess up the most, you learn the most.

Look Up: For answers. For inspiration. When you feel like you can't go on. When you are exhausted. You will get through this...and you'll come out of this better. Stronger. Authentic to yourself.

Much Love,

Coach Kenzie

Kenzie EvansJuly 12, 2018Comment

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